| Whamdangler | Quote 2010-02-19 08:41:15 |
Resist the urge to open that can of worms. Resist!
And...post the link.
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| make me some tea | Quote 2010-02-19 08:45:58 |
Just keep quiet and fap to it in private. Best not to get involved beyond that.
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| astrnomr | Quote 2010-02-19 08:48:22 |
DO NOT, under any circumstances, confront her directly. If you think she needs to know, find a way to leave an anonymous tip.
Oh, and post the link here so we can verify for ourselves if she was aware of the videocamera.
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| Miles_OToole | Quote 2010-02-19 08:49:59 |
Whamdangler: And...post the link.
Yes. We would appreciate it.
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| Stevarooni | Quote 2010-02-19 09:04:03 |
The short answer is that there's no truly "safe" way to discuss porn with your work-only pal.
More importantly, 99% sure isn't enough. You need to watch it...repeatedly and with zoom at 2X to make sure. If you're 100% sure, you still might not want to bring it up. If you were a close, personal friend, there'd be no question; the fact that you're only friendly at work...well, you already sound like you don't want to risk your job for this. There's no casual way to bring this up with her, you sure as heck can't send her the link. There's also the possibility that what you thought was her being secretly taped was an exhibitionist thrill for her, a fantasy of being seen-without-knowing.
In conclusion: Fap but close your trap.
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| E-Brake | Quote 2010-02-19 09:28:56 |
Stevarooni: In conclusion: Fap but close your trap.
Agreed. As Confucius (or was it Nipsey Russell?) said:
Fap to her smut with your trap staying shut.
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| Stacked Librarian | Quote 2010-02-19 09:57:23 |
Step one: Create throwaway email account
Step two: Send anonymous email
Step three: Profit by not losing your job/humiliating someone
Telling her to her face makes it seem like you want to witness the drama. If you really want to help her out, spare her the embarrassment of knowing that a dude at work saw her in a compromising position.
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| Sorthum | Quote 2010-02-19 10:23:40 |
Use hushmail.com or similar if you're going to do an anonymous email; anything else is a bit too trackable.
Realize this, though-- her presence on this site is either something she knows about, or doesn't. If the former, no problem, why embarrass her further? If the latter, well-- ignorance is bliss.
It's not your place. Just fap to it and enjoy.
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| baked beans | Quote 2010-02-19 10:41:13 |
Stacked Librarian: Step one: Create throwaway email account
Step two: Send anonymous email
Step three: Profit by not losing your job/humiliating someone
Telling her to her face makes it seem like you want to witness the drama. If you really want to help her out, spare her the embarrassment of knowing that a dude at work saw her in a compromising position.
this....
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| killmenow | Quote 2010-02-19 17:12:53 |
leave her a sticky note (the post-it kind) with the url. use gloves when you do this. mail it to her even
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| Nescio quid dicas | Quote 2010-02-20 01:06:07 |
email the link from an anonymous email account to her.
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| kmaaptps | Quote 2010-02-20 09:54:29 |
I like the idea of emailing her anonymously, but you shouldn't even email it to her at work - if it gets picked up by some filter, and one of the IT overlords looks at the link, you could be jeopardizing her job.
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