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At 2008-12-19 12:31:28 (Central Time) someone wrote:                     (Views: 1626)                Bottom

Should this be a sign to call off the wedding?

My fiance has always been a little more wild and freewheeling than I am. Think of it as I'm a little bit country, she is a little bit rock and roll. Now she has a few tattoos, which, while I'm not a tattoo kind of guy, are actually quite tasteful and well thought out. Celtic and Japanese symbology and the such, and easily concealable when she needs to fancy her self up.

She went down to New Orleans on her bachelorette party last weekend with some friends for her girls night out. While she was down there, one of her best friends wanted to get a tattoo, and she joined her. They both got small yinyang type symbols. Fine and all, but its on her left breast, and high enough where if a shirt has ANY cleavage, its visible.

I told her I was upset with this, about how it would look in wedding pictures (wedding is in 2 weeks, so it won't even be fully healed or whatever by then), and how I didn't think it was something very classy to do. I mean, a tattoo is fine I guess, but one like that crosses the boundaries of good taste.

She has chalked it up to me not understanding her, and we have left it at that. We aren't fighting, and everything is still going forward, but now I am worried that I am setting myself up to live a life of a family you see on COPS, where they show up for a domestic in the poor part of town.


------- Updated 2008-12-19 12:43:28 -------

I am more upset that its a visible tattoo, and a boob tattoo at that, then hiding it in pictures.

------- Updated 2008-12-19 12:45:14 -------

PLEASE stop calling my fiance a whore. She is not.

------- Updated 2008-12-19 12:50:08 -------

Thanks everyone for showing your colors. I ask a question as to if I am just getting flummoxed over nothing, and you naturally sink to the level of badmouthing someone I love, and trust very much. Well played. I am sure women, tattooed or not, are lined up for you, like guys would be for her if she was available.


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 lawtalkingguyQuote      2008-12-19 12:34:01 

What is the tattoo of? I am going to guess it's of Calvin taking a whiz on her engagement ring.

 lawtalkingguyQuote      2008-12-19 12:34:41 

Oh, never mind, it's a yin yang. Edgy.

 WhamdanglerQuote      2008-12-19 12:35:10 

Photoshop was invented for a reason.

 frickinsweetQuote      2008-12-19 12:39:45 

Is she wearing one of those whorish strapless wedding dresses? If so, you shouldn't be marrying her in the first place. If not, who gives a fuck.

 thepersonalgoddessQuote      2008-12-19 12:41:24 

They make this stuff called tattoo coverup. I had a buddy who used it on a neck tattoo. It worked very well for the wedding.

 rucaQuote      2008-12-19 12:43:01 

if you are questioning calling off the wedding for something this small and stupid, then yes, you should call it off.

 netweavrQuote      2008-12-19 12:43:21 

It's not your body.

 netweavrQuote      2008-12-19 12:46:50 

I am more upset that its a visible tattoo, and a boob tattoo at that, then hiding it in pictures.

Dude, it's not your body.

 lawtalkingguyQuote      2008-12-19 12:46:58 

Can't you just grab her boob everytime someone important starts to glance at it?

 netweavrQuote      2008-12-19 12:52:09 

Thanks everyone for showing your colors. I ask a question as to if I am just getting flummoxed over nothing, and you naturally sink to the level of badmouthing someone I love, and trust very much. Well played. I am sure women, tattooed or not, are lined up for you, like guys would be for her if she was available.

Whamdangler, can you out this moron?

 tin_manQuote      2008-12-19 12:54:28 

She sounds slutty.

 andyofneQuote      2008-12-19 12:54:45 

Dude, you're the one asking random internet strangers for advice about your marriage.

 too-oldQuote      2008-12-19 12:55:45 

You knew we were snakes

 Harvey BirdmanQuote      2008-12-19 12:56:45 

No, it's;


BITCH, YOU KNEW WE WAS SNAKES!

 too-oldQuote      2008-12-19 12:57:43 

Harvey Birdman: No, it's;


BITCH, YOU KNEW WE WAS SNAKES!


Don't be correcting me

 WhamdanglerQuote      2008-12-19 13:00:48 

netweavr: Whamdangler, can you out this moron?

I don't know who submits them--60% the time

 netweavrQuote      2008-12-19 13:02:08 

Whamdangler: netweavr: Whamdangler, can you out this moron?

I don't know who submits them--60% the time


Oh well, it was worth a shot.

 too-oldQuote      2008-12-19 13:06:12 

Whamdangler: netweavr: Whamdangler, can you out this moron?

I don't know who submits them--60% the time


You submit 40% of them?

 jghiloniQuote      2008-12-19 13:07:25 

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 I_C_WeenerQuote      2008-12-19 13:09:53 

netweavr: It's not your body.

Ahem. When married they share all property 50/50. This includes the woman. He just doesn't want damaged property.

/Seriously...suck it up or get out. You are awful whiny.

 Cordwainer DeathbirdQuote      2008-12-19 13:12:44 

You sound bitter.

If she hasn't behaved like a candidate for COPS in the past, she's not likely to do so in the future. You should know her well enough by now to trust her--if you don't then maybe you guys should do a little couples counseling and clear that up before it becomes a serious issue later on down the line. If it's not that big an issue--and it shouldn't be--and you trust her, lose the self-righteousness and marry the supposed girl of your dreams. But if a boob tattoo is all it takes to make you fly off the handle and start jumping to unwarranted conclusions, then you have some issues you personally need to address.

thepersonalgoddess: They make this stuff called tattoo coverup. I had a buddy who used it on a neck tattoo. It worked very well for the wedding.

There you go. And you said it was small, so cool your jets. It's not like she went out and had a sleeve done for heaven's sake.

 baked beansQuote      2008-12-19 13:16:31 

you sound like a real controlling prick......

You're actually concerned about the future of your marriage because of a tit tat?

good luck. let me know how all that works for ya.

 tin_manQuote      2008-12-19 13:16:37 

Boob tattoos are trashy, just like your filthy, disease ridden whore of a GF.

 mayberebeccaQuote      2008-12-19 13:23:24 

tin_man: Boob tattoos are trashy, just like your filthy, disease ridden whore of a GF.

hell yeah they are. i love mine.

 frankburnsQuote      2008-12-19 13:25:48 

tin_man: Boob tattoos are trashy, just like your filthy, disease ridden whore of a GF.

And we have a winner!!!!!!!

 Bright Starry NightQuote      2008-12-19 13:27:30 

It's your fault for proposing to a whore.

You should have known what was going to happen when she went to NOLA that it wasn't going to be good.

Enjoy giving her half your stuff.

 make me some teaQuote      2008-12-19 13:30:48 

mayberebecca: tin_man: Boob tattoos are trashy, just like your filthy, disease ridden whore of a GF.

hell yeah they are. i love mine.


I think maybe we should pre-emptively call the cops and have them show up at the wedding just in case there's a drunken white trash brawl.

 tin_manQuote      2008-12-19 13:33:01 

mayberebecca: tin_man: Boob tattoos are trashy, just like your filthy, disease ridden whore of a GF.

hell yeah they are. i love mine.


You have a disease ridden whore of a GF?

I wonder if it's the same girl.

 make me some teaQuote      2008-12-19 13:34:54 

Bright Starry Night: It's your fault for proposing to a whore.

You should have known what was going to happen when she went to NOLA that it wasn't going to be good.

Enjoy giving her half your stuff.


He should have her tested for STDs before sticking his peenor back in her too.

 Dread Pirate SlasherQuote      2008-12-19 14:26:29 

mayberebecca: tin_man: Boob tattoos are trashy, just like your filthy, disease ridden whore of a GF.

hell yeah they are. i love mine.


Oh, it looks good on you though.

 thepersonalgoddessQuote      2008-12-19 14:38:00 

Whores get paid.

Your wife is just a slut.

 balesQuote      2008-12-19 14:44:57 

ying yang tat? on her breast? not fully healed either?

dude, you're wife is uh.. easy. i know.

and she's a whore too.

 killmenowQuote      2008-12-19 15:56:06 

you guys are arseholes.

 _DamienQuote      2008-12-19 16:06:41 

I know... get a rainbow on your forehead and see if she objects.

 Cordwainer DeathbirdQuote      2008-12-19 16:11:09 

Thanks everyone for showing your colors. I ask a question as to if I am just getting flummoxed over nothing, and you naturally sink to the level of badmouthing someone I love, and trust very much. Well played. I am sure women, tattooed or not, are lined up for you, like guys would be for her if she was available.

Some people are just fundamentally bitter and angry, subby. Don't let it fash ye.

 sokeriQuote      2008-12-19 16:48:36 

you'll get over it.

 msannomalleyQuote      2008-12-21 08:04:25 

If you're ready to call off the wedding over a tattoo, then you two have no business getting married. I'm not against tattoos, but it is pretty stupid to go out and get one two weeks before the wedding on a whim. This is stupid on the same level as trying a completely new haircut or tried out a new hair color the day before a special occasion.

I doubt that you will end up living the life of cheap white trailer trash, but you should be more concerned with the fact that she showed some poor judgement by going out and doing something that is difficult to undo and on the spur of the moment. I think that's what you are worried about deep down, and not appearances. I think you are worried that once you are married, your future wife will do something incredibly stupid on a whim that will have serious consequences on the both of you and it could be something that cannot be undone. And you are right to be concerned about that. I also think deep down, you are worried about trust, too. The two of you need to sit down and have a talk.

That will be five cents, please.

 LJRacing91Quote      2008-12-21 12:01:02 

You think that was bad? Wait til the video hits the internet. You'll be REALLY upset then. Although amazed at the same time, wondering how she can get jammed in all those holes at the same time.

Oh, and guys would be lined up for her because she HAS the boob tattoo. That even tops the "lower back cumshot target" ones.

 


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